Performance Anxiety [15 Nov 2009|02:42pm] sextips [nadinefan] So, after 11 months of being silly and unsure, I'm finally in a committed relationship with this guy, and it's amazing. We have everything in common, and he's smart and funny and just so good to me. I'm so happy to have him in my life. Fast forward, we're horny as fuck and we want to bang like bunnies whenever we're around each other. That's not a big deal for me, cuz while I'm not a virgin, and with the one slip up in January, I've not had sex in 2 years. He's never had sex. He's fooled around, but never all the way, ya know? We are getting hot and heavy, and we did have sex, but he's really nervous and has trouble...getting there, if you know what I mean. I really enjoy being with him, and I can tell that he's insecure about a lot of things, like his weight (which doesn't bother him me in the least) or about messing up in bed...which....he has no problem with at all hahahha. he's amazing. but what can i do to him out? I personally post comment

unable to be aroused! [15 Nov 2009|01:33am] sextips [linnylooloo] for the last year or two i have had an impossible time being turned on by my boyfriend. i dread having sex more than anything. it hurts and i'm always stressed out and tense. it also doesn't help that i'm fairly tight (and not wet) and that he's very much above average in size. i hate that the entire time we're doing it i'm just hoping that it's going to be over soon. i become tense the moment we're undressed and no matter how long foreplay lasts it doesn't do any good because the entire time i'm thinking about how it's going to hurt. i've tried to take my mind off of it, but nothing i'm doing is helping. even with lubricant it can still be unpleasant. my boyfriend has been very patient, but it visibly upsets him. whenever he tries to put it in i tend to yell and scooch away. he thinks it's his fault, but it really isn't. i'm madly in love with him and i'm incredibly attracted to him, so why can't we have good sex!? why can't i WANT to have sex?? for the first two years we were together it was amazing and then out of nowhere (i've never been on birth control pills or anything) it just started to be a painful, painful chore for me. tips? advice? anything? :( post comment

[15 Nov 2009|04:05pm] thequestionclub [katelily] Is it me, or does everyone have holiday shopping on the brain today? Well, to add fuel to the fire - we wanted to send my mother in law to a spa for a gift. But she lives in the DC area and everything there is super expensive (I know, I just looked). So I figured I might put together a package of spa type things that she could do at home. What would you like to have for a home spa? Do you have any recipes for homemade treatments and the like? Or is this just not a good idea and I should look for something else? 14 comments|post comment

Oldest woman in Playboy... [15 Nov 2009|09:59pm] ohnotheydidnt [theuglycry] In the December issue of Dutch Playboy, 60-year-old Patricia proves that you are never too old to show off your memaw mammaries or granny lips (both pairs) to the public. Yes, homegirl is 60 and looking like Lindsay Lohan's much younger sister. Get that shit, Patty! Show off those Werther's Originals for grannies everywhere! (Note to my own mom: DON'T EVEN! DON'T!) source. 88 comments|post comment

This is a mayer post to make you smile [15 Nov 2009|06:48pm] ohnotheydidnt [gloweeyes] [ mood | calm ] John Mayer on Video Hits Australia ( How Are You? ) 17 comments|post comment

shit just got real: Doctor Who "End of Time" Trailer [14 Nov 2009|03:45pm] ohnotheydidnt [telegram_] This was shown at the end of WoM. BEAR IN MIND THAT SOME PEOPLE (MOST IMPORTANTLY MYSELF) HAVE NOT YET SEEN WoM!!!! IF YOU DISCUSS IT IN THE COMMENTS PLEASE BE SURE TO STATE CLEARLY THAT YOUR FOLLOWING COMMENT CONTAINS A SPOILER!! THANK YOU! source 37 comments|post comment

Interview with Katey Sagal, aka Peg Bundy aka HBIC Gemma [15 Nov 2009|09:37pm] ohnotheydidnt [airings] Katey Sagal is back in Mommie-Not-So-Dearest mode. The actress was hardly the model mother as the wise-cracking, lazy housewife Peg Bundy on Fox's "Married . . . With Children." But that character would be "Mother of the Year" next to Gemma Teller Morrow, the ruthless matriarch of an outlaw biker club on FX's "Sons of Anarchy." The role on the drama, which has grown in its second season to one of the cable network's most popular dramas, is the latest in a gallery of TV mothers for Sagal, who also played a soccer mom on the comedy "8 Simple Rules for Dating My Teenage Daughter." While thrilled over the growing popularity of "Sons of Anarchy," which was created by her husband, Kurt Sutter, she still finds time for her first love -- music. She often performs at the intimate M Club in Hollywood. As she sat in one of the club's booth, she talked about TV bikers and the late John Ritter. ( Spoilers for the second season of Sons Of Anarchy ) Source 23 comments|post comment

Lindsay Lohan leaving a party in Beverly Hills last night - November 14th [15 Nov 2009|12:19pm] ohnotheydidnt [ajulysuicide] ( View More ) Source 39 comments|post comment

Jessica Lowndes celebrating her 21st birthday @ LAVO Restaurant Nightclub [15 Nov 2009|12:18pm] ohnotheydidnt [alwaysfool] ( cue the pretty ) source: wireimage 60 comments|post comment

Eight Minutes of Peaches [15 Nov 2009|03:12pm] ohnotheydidnt [gummi_baby] Peaches from Speaker TV on Vimeo. She talks about her DJ set in Australia and her upcoming videos. LMAO at her fake-huffing that fat marker. Source: http://vimeo.com/7405087 10 comments|post comment

Me and Orson Welles clip [15 Nov 2009|12:36pm] ohnotheydidnt [ehs_wildcats] [ mood | indescribable ] With Zac Efron, James Tupper, Claire Danes and Leo Bill: FYI, December 4th is the UK date, November 25th for LA/NYC and full expansion Dec 11th, US and Canada. Also Zef, Claire and Richard Linklater were on CBS' Washington Unplugged and Bob Schieffer seems really happy to be interviewing them... ( clickee! ) I wish they'd release more footage of Christian McKay as Orson. 1, 2 3 comments|post comment

NY Times Screen Test: Megan Fox Edition [15 Nov 2009|01:28pm] ohnotheydidnt [vikingsmn] Youtube 33 comments|post comment

[15 Nov 2009|04:06pm] thequestionclub [beetle_breath] Do you think giving gift cards is tacky or lazy? I wish I could break everyone of the notion that they are, because I'd rather get a gift card to somewhere I shop (hey, it shows you pay attention to that much at least) rather than some little useless nick-nack. Or should I not look a gift horse in the mouth? I sound like an ungrateful bastard here, don't I? 18 comments|post comment

[15 Nov 2009|12:49pm] thequestionclub [etymolology] What song is stuck in your head right now? 17 comments|post comment

[15 Nov 2009|12:48pm] thequestionclub [russiawithlover] What should I get my boyfriend's grandparents for Christmas? They're in their late sixties, love Labradors, and have tons of shit already. I'm also at their house about four nights a week. Should I just get their three Labradors Snuggies? Also, am I required to send my boyfriend's parents a gift? They live in Nevada (we're in California) and I've only met the dad twice and the mom once. 5 comments|post comment

[15 Nov 2009|03:27pm] thequestionclub [serindipitous] Do you have any tips for getting along with a coworker that you seem to disagree with a lot? Situation: I am 22 and the girl is 17. She thinks that because she has worked at this particular store for longer than me it makes me her subordinate. Part of the problem is that my manager (her friend) makes it a habit of telling her one thing and telling me another. At this point I just do as I am told by my manager, I think if she wants something done differently she will tell me directly. Today I forgot to put a debit receipt into the till and the girl but my head off over it. A week ago a processed a transaction incorrectly (we have about 30 different types of transactions, we don't use them all often) it was an easy fix, however she chewed me out over it. Things like this happen all the time. My manager is currently on vacation so there's not much I can do involving her until next week. Everything is an emergency with her, she never listens to anything I say, she treats me like I'm a child. I know as the adult here I should be able to just let it all go, but this has been happening since May and I'm sick of it. What do I do here? 20 comments|post comment

[15 Nov 2009|03:26pm] thequestionclub [h20] What is your favorite type of buffalo wing sauce? 11 comments|post comment

[15 Nov 2009|03:23pm] thequestionclub [persiascarecrow] How do you deal with unrequited love? 14 comments|post comment

[15 Nov 2009|03:22pm] thequestionclub [freepostage] What are some good gift ideas for an SO's parents? A sibling's girlfriend (~20 years old)? Assume you don't know either too well. None of the above drink. Who do you have to buy for this year? 17 comments|post comment

[15 Nov 2009|03:17pm] thequestionclub [xladymissiex] [ mood | creative ] I have a few shirts that have been stained for a while and nothing I have tried yet has worked. I'm interested in maybe using color safe bleach and borax to help the wash and see if I can still save my shirts. I have a few questions though since I've never used either. Can I soak my colored shirts in the color safe bleach? If I can how long? Should I put them in a bucket and soak the whole shirt or only dump some bleach on the effected areas? Is Borax only used by adding it in the wash or are there other ways to use it? [For those who don't know/don't care] Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to tell all of TQC about either your short term goals or long term goals. Have you been progressing with said goals or are you a lazy bastard? This "tape" will self destruct in 5 minutes. How do you dispose of it? 1 comment|post comment

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